My theme for 2015 is to eliminate clutter in my life, both
physically and mentally. Note that I
said theme not resolution. This is more
than a simple resolution, it’s more of a mantra. I’m getting rid of old clothes, papers, and miscellaneous
junk. I am also clarifying my goals and
working to change old beliefs that aren’t working for me. I know by eliminating clutter, I will be more
focused and more effective.
Uncluttering my life is a huge undertaking, and I now it
will be an ongoing battle. Let’s face
it, keeping clutter under control is difficult when you have kids, and it’s even
harder when you have an ADHD child and you have ADHD yourself. However, I know my new “eliminate clutter”
mantra will be well worth it.
As I’ve set out on my mission to eliminate clutter, I’ve
found a few tricks that help me stay motivated and moving in the right
direction.
Visualize the End
Result
ADHDers need a clear picture of what they want the end
result to look like. It’s important to
consider both the benefits of eliminating clutter and the disadvantages of
leaving things the way they are. For me
those benefits include having less to clean and having an uncluttered, calm
place to live and work. If I don’t try to reduce the clutter, it will
continue to affect my ability to focus, and I will continue to feel frustrated
and stressed.
Every Little Bit
Counts
Even if you don’t have an entire weekend to dedicate to
cleaning out your closet, you can still make progress. Keep a box handy where you can put items to
give away as you come across them. Also,
keep a trash can handy for those things that need to be thrown out.
Make an Ongoing
Commitment
On a similar note, keeping your life clutter free is an
ongoing process. The clutter didn’t develop overnight, and it won’t disappear
that quickly either. It requires an
ongoing commitment. To maintain a
clutter free lifestyle, it requires changing old behaviors, habits, and thought
patterns.
For example, I have a lot of clothes, and I mean A LOT! It’s
obscene. A few months ago, the hanger
rods in my closet collapsed from all the weight. Therefore, I’ve committed to getting rid of
at least one article of clothing each day.
That commitment has encouraged me to challenge the thinking patterns
that led to me keeping clothes that I don’t need and don’t wear. Do I really need 50 t-shirts? I can’t
possibly wear them all.
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